Is this a good time for us to talk?

So PMJ❤ has got a new way of teasing me by saying whenever we ‘debate’ about a topic… ‘Why don’t you blog about it’ or ‘that would make a good blogging topic’. Well, this is just one of those topics and he is going to regret saying that because now I’ll do just that and… Continue reading Is this a good time for us to talk?

Family, Spiritual Inspiration

Finding balance – Part 2

Last week I posted about a subject that touches all of us at some point. I decided to proactively look at ways that I can improve the balance in my home and in other areas. I will put down my vulnerable action and then I will make notes of how I will correct those behaviors. The… Continue reading Finding balance – Part 2

Spiritual Inspiration

Toxic Spiritual Habits You Must Stop Right Now — Tampa by Florence

I have learnt that sometimes we tend to neglect the things that are necessary for the things that are not and we mostly end up being as confused as ever. I was reading a post by lifecoachcode which helps us get a hold of our contradictions and Confusion.They kind of listed 14 kinds of spiritual […]… Continue reading Toxic Spiritual Habits You Must Stop Right Now — Tampa by Florence


Finding balance – Part 1

I have to come clean on a few things I’ve been struggling with for some time now. I cannot truly say that I’m content with everything in my life at the moment. Keeping a healthy balance between work, family, finances and health is constantly pressing me. I just feel extremely off the track. It was… Continue reading Finding balance – Part 1


Being a “Ministry” wife – 6 Wives share

I want to introduce you to Shaveh guys!! I hope she won’t mind…I didn’t even warn her:-) She’s over at and I followed her blog purely because I was seriously contemplating to home school my lil’princess and wanted a close up to see how tough or easy it really was…I learned that Shaveh is dynamite in a cute package.
But not just that, she is also blogging about another honorable role that women plays in this crazy world of ours. ‘Being a ministry wife’.

I love how God leads me when I pray for direction…even for direction when I’m blogging. Again I say, women should be celebrated for all the different roles they portray in our lives.
YES I’m a woman and YES I’m celebrating women too.

The life of 5 Feders

Time is honestly flying by! It’s like, March already. Can somebody pinch me please? While I pull myself towards myself – let’s just dive in shall we. I have been wanting to do this kind of post for a very, very, very, VERY long time. I have been playing with the idea like a cat with a ball of wool. It’s been one of those that I haven’t been too sure about and also, will it be well received? Do people really want to know about this kind of thing…. So after much pondering, and running it by a few people I decided to just do it and see what happens. Not to really get a response, but to see if it will begin to help some people.

Ok, I hear you – what idea is it Shaveh?

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Family, Photographs

Brave and Beautiful moms

Brave and beautiful moms of our time is to be celebrated for the important role they play in the lives of their babes. Young and spirited women stepped out and took up this challenge to do a photo shoot with Trina Cary Photography. Read the story by Trina Cary and I hope it will inspire… Continue reading Brave and Beautiful moms


😊 Just loving on myself today🌸🌼

A wise woman once said that you must never be afraid to promote yourself. So today I want to share a tad bit more of thee authentic, thee amazing, thee beautiful missus C that's me💖💛💖💛 and I thought it would be a jolly good idea to share this post about myself via Mind Sparkle  … Continue reading 😊 Just loving on myself today🌸🌼


Birthday Weekend Share #22

It’s party time!! Happy Birthday!!

Its good to be crazy Sometimes

Well since it is my birthday on the 2nd, I expect each of you to be celebrating it in your time zones, for some of you, its already my birthday, so make sure you raise a drink to me. Lets make this weekend fantastic. I know there are lots of blog parties going on round the blogsphere but the more the merrier. Lets party

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If you are new or just need reminding here are the rules

Rules are very simple,

  1. You can share up to five links
  2. They can be a post, your blog, someone elses post or blog
  3. You can comment on here from now till 11.30pm on Friday evening (GMT time)
  4. I shall start sharing from Midnight Saturday till 11.30pm Sunday (GMT time)
  5. It can be anything you want, however I will have final say if I think its is classed as an ism (racism, sexism etc)


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A little town that has surely been creeping into my heart since last year already is a place called Piketberg. Enthusiastically I wrote on our family notice board so that everyone was aware of our next #Saturdaymorningexploring trip. “Family excursion to Piketberg this Saturday morning @ 08:00 sharp!!” Our road trip took me and my… Continue reading Piket-bo-berg


Teens and relationships: ‘Daddy, I’ve got a girlfriend now…’

My baby boy…14 years old to be exact, gave his dad some real exciting news one morning before school. Dad being more excited about it I suspect sends me a screenshot of their conversation while I’m at work. In the message he tells his dad that he asked a girl out on a date over… Continue reading Teens and relationships: ‘Daddy, I’ve got a girlfriend now…’